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Cheat Day
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Cheat DayCheat Day does not refer to a diet where you indulge in your favorite comfort food, it means something different.  If your husband is cheating maybe you will settle for comfort food or do something about it, either way it’s cheat day right? The Day before Valentines Day, unfortunately, is cheat day.  I say this because it’s the day where cheating husbands play in both worlds of family life and life away from the spouse.  The Urban dictionary defines it as Mistress Day.

Cheat Day Agenda

Married men know that on February 14th, they had better to be making an effort to have a preplanned night out with their wife. It has become an expectation, and uneasy day to the husband who ignores the holiday. However, for the man who has a little, something on the side, she is often unhappy and jealous of the fact that she is not going to get attention on this day.  So to set the mistress at ease  these men try to make the other woman happy by spending the evening before Valentine’s Day with her.
No one likes to think about their spouse cheating on them. Nevertheless, if your spouse is cheating, the arrival of Valentine’s Day is one holiday that is hard for cheating lovers to overlook.  While Valentine’s Day itself is reserved for your husband, wife, or significant other, the day before, February 13, can easily be set aside for the “other” person!

Cheat Day abnormalities

So fellow wives if you get the “I have to work late excuse the day before Valentine’s day, and you have noticed skeptical behavior in the past few weeks, you might consider if your spouse is indulging in cheat day and expecting to have is cake too, check the credit card statements for inconsistencies or the bank account for irregular large cash withdrawals. Alternatively, you can call me, and I can run surveillance for you at anytime. Cheating happens all the time not only on the Day before Valentines.   If you want to catch him in the act, please fill out the form below, and I will contact you.


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Factors Infidelity
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Marriage or relationships are not easy, things happen, people change or get wrapped up in careers, adult children or a combination of factors occurs, surfacing the just cause of the split.  One of those factors infidelity is an affair –the man; usually admits to having an affair.

In an article Why Long-Married Couples Split by AARP  it outlines high profile marriages and why they last or don’t last.

As suggested in the article high-profile cases of infidelity usually grasp the headlines, but more often than none, it is only the factors infidelity that brings the real problems bubbling to the surface.

In a survey conducted by AARP on the sexuality of people 45 and older found that the affairs happen for only a relatively small number of couples.  It may be a reason, but it is not the root of some marriages failing.  The question remains why so many long-married couples decide to split?

Factors Infidelity

In most cases, the reasons are far less dramatic but the catalyst; infidelity gets the blame.

  • On the Decline for Years
  • Lost Love Interest
  • Issues Intensify
  • Loss of Job
  • Health
  • Children’s lives
  • Personal Ambitions

The above are some of the real reasons and “The Factors Infidelity”  Helped it along.

We have all bought balloons for someone’s birthday at one time, or another brought them home.  We tie them to a chair or the back of the child’s bed.  Over a day or so you notice the balloon starting to lose its lift.  Compare this to a marriage, the helium being an element that holds the marriage afloat.  If the marriage has holes like a porous balloon then the part that keeps the marriage afloat, starts to leak, and the binding element begins to diminish.

At one time or another we always ask the question “What happened” most likely you hear the statement “We grew apart” Although it is a standard cliche it does not mean it is not the common cause of the divorce or separation among long-time married couples.   A sure tail sign of a couple losing helium in the balloon of their relationship is the couple leading separate lives.  i.e., –he gets more and more into his work  -she gets more and more into her children, her adult children, or gets ambitious.

Although the Catalyst of Infidelity might have awoken the real reasons, it is probably a good idea to try to understand the real reasons why couples get divorced.

It is not an open discussion from any angle but if you feel your spouse is stepping outside the vows, and you are in harms way because of it.  It might be a good idea to leave a message. It is confidential, and we understand it is not an easy subject.  The Apogean Team provides a no cost preliminary consultation on the subject.


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